Mmmm...never met or spoke....so hello ~
So a new man and keeping your "shorty" isn't an option.....so next question is why lose interest?
I specifically made sure when doing renovations that w/I 1 week I could be on the road....not done...but mobile
Take it out with a cooler of food and drinks and use it as a metal..urgh...fiberglass tent
See if "it" is still there
Good luck,you got a free "bump"