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Isolators for the alternator don't really have a brand name following. I would get one rated for at least 200 amps for a 150-amp alternator. They use isolation diodes, and heat up about 7 watts for every 10 amps of charging current, so capacity and cooling matter.
Hydrates are rugged and weigh a lot. They need the water checked, must be vented, and shouldn't be indoors. Gels on the other hand just need the voltage checked. Check the specs, most gels are not rated for quite as high a charging voltage as hydrates, and if you overcharge them they can permanently lose capacity.
There are a variety of batteries out their. El Cheapo Primo is to find a pair of used 6-volt golf cart batteries with life left in them. Caviar style names would be Rolls or Surette. A lot of people use various kinds of Optimas. Trojans make solid hydrates, and are a staple of off-grid cabins. East Penn/Deka are another solid choice. But some folks just like to save money with the big box and club store brands. It's quite a difference in price. Just don't use starting batteries (high current, very low capacity) for deep-cycle use (very low current, high capacity).
What you get for a charger depends on your intentions. If you intend to make AC, the top-of-the line choice is an integrated charger/inverter/transfer switch. Program it for your batteries, and then just plug everything in. When on shoreline or generator, it will charge your batteries, and pass AC to the loads plugged or wired into it. As soon as the external AC fails, it will begin inverting if enabled and continue powering the loads it serves.
A much cheaper way would be to salvage a converter-charger from an old RV to make 12-volts. Or, buy one brand new. The Chinese WFCO converter units are now being used by the stick-n-staple factories in the US. We have one that came built into our camper, and measuring the three state charge (non-adjustable, calibrated for hydrates) showed it worked exactly as promised. They have several models, and not at all expensive:
http://www.bestconverter.com/9800-Series-_c_62.html Have a separate cheapo inverter if you want to make some AC.