There's a DT408...but it's not a Detroit. Perhaps that what she's referring to? As far as the question goes, there are tons of good or great engines. It's generally good, if you can, to avoid some of the emissions stuff. And of course there are some engines to avoid altogether. I love the old 2-stroke Detroits, but they have their own maintenance requirements (and oil consumption).
We also have a Cummins 8.3 and that's a really strong running engine. We've got, or have had, good experiences with the Detroit Series 50, the Cat C7 (I know some don't like it, but our experience was good), the 7.3 IDI, the 7.3 Powerstroke, and the 3208 (again, disliked by some, but working great for us). With a few exceptions, you'll find fans for almost all the diesels. The 444 and 466 engines are almost universally liked. And the 408 is just one of those with a shorter piston stroke. But, having said that, I have no experience with it...
But, like bus-bro said, definitely avoid the Detroit 408!