followup safety question.....
ok, so the 2 travelers terminals are brass and the black terminal is load.
in my situation.....
spdt 3 way switch
3 screws - 1 black for load, 2 brass for travelers
the input from the inverter is the black load.
each brass traveler goes to the appliance.
i guess my first though would be to put a hot on one of the brass... so, im asking. it feels backwards.