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Originally Posted by milkmania
Friends and family are overrated...
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Good friends and family are not overrated..
Last year lots of people said they were bummed out when I announced I wasn’t going to have a Christmas gathering, that I was going to go to south beach instead..
After all the “we are upset” , I cancelled my hotel rooms and stayed in Ohio, cooked for days , I love to cook and have holiday gatherings, it’s a passion of mine..
When only a couple people bothered to show I ended up really bummed..
Enter 2018 holiday season, I had a thanksgiving gathering, small by design, I announced then that’s there’s not going to be a Christmas party on Christmas Eve,
Again came the oh we will be bummed.. I said maybe I’ll reconsider .. there were all kids of holiday events and attractions I wanted to do, but it seemed like each one I ended up on by myself. Even the red Byrd north trip several backed out.. so I went by myself ..
After I posted pics I got the “ oh that looked like so much fun “and “I would’ve gone if I knew you were gonna climb mountains and ride locomotives”..
I didn’t know that’s what we were gonna do.. the beauty of a fluid group we had was just that. Fluid.. the host said “wanna go up the mountain?”.. sure let’s go!
When my 50th birthday came and went on the 11th , not a damn single person took me out to dinner let alone the “you turn 50 this year this will be epic!!” That I was lead to believe it would be.. I envisioned at least a group of us sucking down drinks and feasting on yum yum at the Cheesecake Factory restaurant..(one of my fav places to go)
So that’s when I decided to heck with everyone and would just hop in my bus and go ..
Turn negatives into positives I like to do.. so do a couples days prelim work in Atlanta to help out. My install team that arrives weds, and then go wherever ..
It was awesome hanging with EC last night , chomping Waffle House and riding his shorty bus!
No idea where I’ll end up today and tomorrow, right now I’m enjoying walking on the I drive I n Orlando despite my allergies giving me a bit of a fit .
I’ll roll someplace today and chill, if someone wants me to roll their direction to hang for a few I’m all for it .
Christopher