Hey DD, i think you get what everyone is saying.... don't over look the GF/OL' LADY for what you see as a new toy. slow and steady wins the race, keep her in the loop and she well come around, if you push to hard (ask her over and over to pick, make up your mind, etc..) it's going to be a war of wills, ask for her advice and always talk about what your idears are and what she thinks. she may act 'not' and 'don't care' but everybody likes to think there thought counts and as time goes by she well warm up, not fast as you may want but she well be proud of what you've done when she sees you build it, and if a few of her idears are in there she might even be suprized, and dare i say "happy", joyful, maybe even bring a dinner out to see how it looks this week !! just remember "it's an us thing & not just a Dan thing, no matter what is said. good luck & keep as posted-not the fight, but the buss & now goes it. later..
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