There are a handful of threads here on this topic from people that were in the same situation as you.
https://www.skoolie.net/forums/f10/s...ton-38600.html
https://www.skoolie.net/forums/f35/w...wap-33423.html
https://www.skoolie.net/forums/f9/sp...ion-19162.html
Do a search on it and read until your eyes are sore.
You've got options here. Your bus is currently equipped with cast spoke "dayton" style hubs. Your front rims are multipiece and rear rims are one piece. You can retain the dayton hubs, install one piece rims on the front, replace all 6 tires, and then be back in business. The one piece dayton rims are still available new and also used, as are the 10r22.5 tires that you currently have installed on the rear. That would probably be the cheapest method.
10 years or so ago they sold kits that converted your dayton hubs to disc hubs. If you find an older parts guy you might be able to source those conversion hubs and the needed bearings, drums, wheels, etc. IDK on the availability of that stuff anymore, especially with covid's effect on the supply chain, so be sure to find someone that has first hand recent experience with it. Doing the conversion, you'd then have the more common disc style wheel, but you'd still likely be using a 10r22.5 tire that you currently have installed.
Another option is swapping the axles. Not exactly cheap either, but if you've got obsolete axles with light duty brakes and an undesirable gear ratio, you can upgrade/modernize all of it at one time and come out for the better in the deal.
I'm surprised your bus, being a 1998, has 9.00-20's on it. In my experience that size was last used in the 80's, with nearly everything in the 90's onward using a radial tire. FWIW the 9.00-20's are still made, but they're pretty rare and limited on tread type, so I'm not surprised that shops told you there no longer available.
What should you do? It depends on what
YOU will actually be doing. If you're just writing the check, stick with your current axles/hubs and let the tire shop handle the multi-piece to single piece rim change.
If you plan on doing this yourself, then you can look into hub or axle swaps if that tickles your fancy. But I wouldn't pay a shop to do that, as it will likely be prohibitively expensive.