You can use Ether with glow plugs, but typically if you have to, it usually means something is wrong and you should fix it, unless it's extremely cold.
I had glow plug issues, they were burnt out and wouldn't work anymore. My bus only needed the slightest spray of Ether, and I mean like 1/2 second tap of that can. A quick "tssh", and she's start up just fine. I had the glow plugs fixed on mine now and it doesn't need ether at all except on the coldest days here.
You should give your glow plugs a second chance to start the vehicle though before jumping straight to ether. Turn key to on, wait 10 seconds for the glow plugs to heat up. Then Crank, If after 5 seconds nothing, stop, wait another 20-30 seconds, then crank a second time. sometimes Glow plugs weren't hot enough at first crank. If after the second attempt fails then give a quick "tssh" of ether.
If you have a block heater, it takes about 4 hours to give the block optimal conditions, (I got this info from Ford websites from people who've done the science on it, and I tested it out this winter on my rig with a block heater and it was consistent with their findings.) but you can usually start it much easier after 1 hour of block heating, but in some temps it still will be hard after only 1 hour. 4 hours should bring you to similar conditions to summer weather cranking speeds and should crank up easily in winter. If it still does not then something else is wrong.