Revised power plan
Got my power budget pretty well down at this point and have come up with the following:
This represents "worst case" with just about everything running with a few exceptions... if it's so hot I need both A/Cs going full blast, its cold sandwiches for dinner and I'm not cooking, ha ha! The stove/oven is LP so could still cook if I wanted to though. Doesn't include diesel heaters or the washing machine - laundry can wait until a cooler day.
Based on that I'm designing the battery bank around 20 kWh and a solar setup of 5000 watts. I am not doing a DC-DC charger off the alternator and am not planning on a generator. My only power source will be solar or shore power (when I can).
I was initially planning on going with Victron equipment but I'm now leaning towards the Signature Solar EG4 6500EX which is a rack-mount all-in-one inverter/charger/MPPT. It has a 3 year warranty bumped up to 5 when paired with EG4 batteries. The largest Victron inverter charger is 3000W at 24v or 48v for about $1300, and that's before you buy MPPTs. The EG4 goes to 6500W at 48v with a 8000W/500VOC max MPPT (dual inputs, solves my split-solar design connection issue of needing two separate Victron MPPTs) - all at a much cheaper price point of $1300.
There's a third party monitoring platform called Solar Assistant that runs on Raspberry Pi for $182 which is also significantly cheaper than the Victron platform, albeit not quite as "fancy."
For batteries I was originally looking at some junk off Amazon just to start the planning process. I then looked at BigBattery much closer, but have now also settled on EG4's LL series 48v server-rack battery. They're 4.8kWh (100aH at 48v), runs $1700 each, and I think 4 should work. That's about $0.35/wH which is cheaper than $0.42/wH on the BigBattery 24v boxes and $0.51/wH on the BigBattery 48v boxes. Both have a 10-year warranty. EG4 also has a newer LifePower series battery that's cheaper at $1500 but is limited to a 5-year warranty. I'm also liking the idea of server rack modularity for where I plan to install this gear in the bus as well as uniform sizes if I ever upgrade or replace gear down the road. Plus my bus really should have a server rack... after all, I do IT infrastructure for a living
I'm still doing some architecting on the solar panels. The plan is still to have a dual setup of permanently mounted flexible panels on the roof and some portable suitcase-style conventional panels for outside placement when needed.
The online "experts" seem to recommend between 2:1 and 5:1 ratios for solar to battery. They all seem to say "you need 200-400W of solar for every 100aH of battery!" Drives me crazy when people use aH instead of wH.

Math was not my strong suit in college lol
Anyway, so I've got 400Ah at 48V which would translate to their 12v equations as 1600aH. By their math that should mean 3200-8000W of solar. My 5000W plan seems to be centerline.
I just have to figure out where in my build I'm going to store those suitcase panels for travel
So far the leaders:
- Some 200W Chinese monocrystalline flexible panels for the roof off Amazon that at least have good reviews. They're 4 ft by 1 ft in size and I think I can get 18 of them on the roof pretty easy at $125 each.
(AND)
- Solarever 370W monos from Signature Solar for the portables (I'll have to fabricate them into suitcases). They're 5.5 ft by 3.5 ft and if I do 2 pairs (4 panels) at $216 each.
(OR)
- Some used panels from San Tan Solar to turn into suitcases.
I'm guessing the vast majority of the time I'm not going to be running A/C full blast so really won't need the extra solar generating capacity all the time.
By my math,
So yeah, I think I'm waaaaay over-built - but better to have and not need than need and not have? Seems like a pretty robust power setup for $13k. Yes, I know I can run a generator cheaper. I just hate generator noise and smell.
So question for the experts...
Am I underpowered on solar?
Do I have some fuzzy math in there somewhere?
What am I overlooking?