timbuk said:
im sure everyone that has used a tow bar more than once has a horror story to tell

i know i have a few what are you towing rep yer other bus? im with elliot on this one-more weight but much safer do you put the hitch in the slider? timbuk
here's my advice....DON'T USE A TOW BAR!
i pulled a car to cali and back with a homemade tow-bar...that was a disaster! had 3 flat tires on the car due to the tires on the car steering the wrong way, ended up needing new tie rod ends when it was all done. also bent the attachment points on the front of the car among other things. had a flat tire for a lon gtime on the car....i noticed it while going downhill in the mountains at nite and could see sparks shooting out behind the bus. There was pretty much no rubber left, just rim.
then i bought a commercially built tow bar rated for 5 or 8k pounds. i pulled a chevy s-10 about 1,000 miles, and it was a fraction of an inch away from tearing off the bracket from the truck...fortunately we didn't loose that one, but he did need new tie rod ends.
then be pulled phil's car 700 miles, and had a little mishap where the car came detached from the bus. that cost me a pair of headlights for a crown vic
i also pulled a 4x4 truck with big tires a few times. it was only about 20 miles one way. As we were unhooking the truck, the tie rod end snapped right off causing each tire to "steer" in opposite the opposite direction of the other.
buy a trailer and tow that. trailers rock compared to tow bars.
another advantage of a trailer is that you can see the fenders in your mirrors. the car is invisible behind the bus, unless you have a camera or can see the shadow on the ground.