My wife and I used Victron components for most of our electrical needs after taking a masterclass on how to put it all together. It was definitely an eye-opener. We juuust finished it and it works great. We used the Victron MultiPlus II for the inverter/charger, and Victron DC to DC, BMS, Battery, solar charger, shunt, Cerbo, etc. I am not sure if I can put the links to the class and the monthly calls here per the rules, but feel free reach out if you want more info.
Rucker has some great info above, particularly with calculating the things you actually need and what will run over time, etc. Also some things like ACs and fridges and the like don't run all the time, just when they need to bring the temps back down/up, etc.
My setup includes shore power, solar, and alternator charging when the bus is running. We have a 5-window mini that's set up for 3-season, so a full size for full-time living is going to be a little different.
Either way, welcome to the asylum!